Showing posts with label Colossians 3. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Colossians 3. Show all posts

Saturday, August 31, 2013

Dirty Jobs? - Labor Day 2013

The graveyards are full of indispensable men.   - Gaulle, Charles De - See more at: http://quotationsbook.com/quote/19783/#sthash.3ZZWwhUP.dpuf
The graveyards are full of indispensable men.   - Gaulle, Charles De - See more at: http://quotationsbook.com/quote/19783/#sthash.3ZZWwhUP.dpuf

Young man, as you perambulate down the pathway of life toward an unavoidable bald head bordered with gray hairs it would be well to bear in mind that the cemeteries are full of men this world could not get along without, and note the fact that things move along after each funeral procession at about the same gait they went before. It makes no difference how important you may be, don’t get the idea under your hat that this world can’t get along without you —Abilene Reporter. (reference: quote investigator.com ) In 1909 a newspaper in Oklahoma printed the phrase as part of a larger passage that carefully delineated its implications [OKCF]

I've thought about this a lot and figured Labor Day (early even!) is a good time to write it. This will probably ask a lot more questions than it answers, and hopefully, make us think and discuss.

Who determines how much a job is worth? Whatever the market will bear? The boss? The stock market? The Board of Directors? The employee? 

If everyone could get paid the same, would that defeat the purpose of a higher education? Should people receive more just because of a diploma? What about on-the-job experience? How do you get on-the-job experience when you're trying to get your first job?

Some people would consider their job important, regardless of their job title. Some people would consider themselves a cog in the machine. They can do the job, but someone else could just as easily...at least with some training. Some people are at their job just waiting for the next and better thing.

If you've watched the show Dirty Jobs, maybe you have come to realize that there are jobs you never knew even existed! (and are glad you don't have that job!)  On the show Undercover Boss, a CEO, usually in a disguise, follows a few employees in their company. By the end of the show, the CEO understands more about those employees....and the jobs they do. Personally, I find it most amusing when the CEO has no idea what the job entails or how to do it.

Ideally, a supervisor should work their way up the ladder so they can truly lead and understand the employees positions. At the very least, a good leader should keep in mind to listen and accept input from the person actually required to do the job.....before they commit to the task....not tell the employee this is what needs to be done....now find a way to do it.

Some jobs are very necessary, but often under-appreciated. One that comes to mind is a custodian/janitor/custodial engineer. Often dealing with messes that someone's own mother probably would not clean up (ATTENTION: Your mother does NOT work here!), able to whip out a mop bucket and place a caution sign so unsuspecting citizens don't fall on their *ahem*, and clean up bodily fluids from who knows what orifice. All with a smile....and their name on their shirt. (really? what other job requires this?) However, since this job often occurs behind the scenes or after hours, we may not appreciate the true value of this job. Could you imagine using a bathroom that has been used hundreds of times....and not cleaned properly? Enough said.

Some jobs we do, there is no way to compensate monetarily. I'm thinking of parents. Moms (LABOR day...whole different meaning) and/or dads that stay home and take care of their kids....and everything else in the home that needs to be done. Sometimes, it's easy to feel inadequate when the topic of jobs comes up and a mom or dad is staying home with the kids. How do you describe all you do in a day? There's no way to describe the frustration of a child with a cold....or siblings are fighting AGAIN(!), but the joy of hearing their laughter when they feel well, they are getting along....or when they say their first words and take their first steps. NEVER underestimate your worth as a parent!

There are many more I could cover (CEOs, Government, unemployment/laid off etc), however, this is getting rather long. I don't want to make it a job just to read this! ;)

Kind of funny that we celebrate our work.....by taking the day off. Enjoy your day. Work at enjoying your job. I pray that you may find fulfillment in whatever you are called to do.

Colossians 3:22-25 (MSG)
Servants, do what you’re told by your earthly masters. And don’t just do the minimum that will get you by. Do your best. Work from the heart for your real Master, for God, confident that you’ll get paid in full when you come into your inheritance. Keep in mind always that the ultimate Master you’re serving is Christ. The sullen servant who does shoddy work will be held responsible. Being a follower of Jesus doesn’t cover up bad work.

Tuesday, February 05, 2013

Oops, Sorry! days

We still have them occasionally. We had one this morning. They usually happen in the mornings. Times when stuff gets a little edgy, we're grumpy, meds haven't kicked in yet and we say things we don't mean....but can't take back. I was bringing her to school. We were nitpicking back and forth. I should have stopped it, but I got sucked into the argument dance. I could have stopped talking....and prayed. We used to do that on the way to school. When did we stop? Why did we stop?

Instead our morning exchange as she gets out of the car has been: Her: ugh! I'm going to have a bad day. Me: Be positive! (somewhat cheerily) Her: OK, I'm positive I'm going to have a bad day.  We each give a half-hearted smile and go about our day.

We're joking. Kind of.

Oops, sorry! really doesn't cover it. However, it became the way my daughter and I would refer to the days when things don't go quite as planned. When we're not as nice to each other as we could be. There are longer spans in between them now. For awhile when she was younger? It was pretty much a daily occurrence.

I have them with other people too. Those days don't necessarily get "named" anything, but you know when they happen. Days when you or others around you feel out of sorts....and we take it out on those unlucky enough to be around us at the time.

So what do we do? Ideally, we head them off before they start. Good theory. We learned sometimes we just need to walk away for a bit.....before we say more things we'll need to say sorry for....and talk later.

The main thing is that we say we're sorry and know that we really do love each other....even on oops, sorry days.....especially on oops, sorry days.

Colossians 3:12-14 (NIV) 12 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

Monday, April 02, 2012

Real Life at the movie store

I know, I know, I know in my heart not to judge other parents. I don't know what they had going on in their day....or how many buttons their kid has already pushed. I know sometimes I have said something I regretted shortly after to the little people in my life. I know sometimes I still say things I regret to the still growing up people in my life.

I talk out of being too busy or frustrated or tired....or....or....or. The reason(s) are unimportant. The fact is I have said things to the people in my family that I would NEVER say out loud to someone else. So have they. That makes me sad.

I'm not trying to sound judgmental. Maybe it was more of an observation that struck a memory on that day. Our daughter and I were at the movie store (doesn't sound right to say "video" store anymore). There were some smaller kids running around and looking at movies. One started to kind of whine or cry. Then the mom said loudly "shut up"....more than once. I wasn't around the corner to see the look on the mom or kid's face. The other people in the store seemed to carry on business as usual...and glance away....and I guess I did too....and that made me frustrated.

I wanted to go up so badly and say something, but what? To a stranger no less. Not to tell her not to talk that way, but to say sounds like you're having a rough day. Can I sit with your kid a few minutes while you finish looking around? We live in a society where that seems no longer acceptable.

The other thing that made me frustrated was if that is how this kid was being talked to in public, how do they get talked to at home? AND this is just one family. This is my family sometimes.

In the movies, many have a happy ending. I don't know the ending of this real life drama. I walked out of the movie store and I write this....to remind myself that life will not always be fairy tales and happy endings. We're not characters in a movie. We are moms and dads that have flaws and get tired and make mistakes. Our kids are not always smiling and bright-eyed. They are kids that had a rough day at school and get tired and make mistakes.

I want to remind myself that how I talk to my kid matters. In real life, anywhere, it matters. 

Colossians 3:20-21 (NIV) 20 Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. 21 Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged.

Malachi 4:6 He will turn the hearts of the parents to their children, and the hearts of the children to their parents

Monday, March 16, 2009

A New Closet

Opened my blog to post the review of The Shack, and was struck by the verse from www.biblegateway.com So, an added bonus today (seems feast or famine when I write!)

The verse:
“Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.”- Colossians 3:12 (NIV)

As Spring approaches...and in reality, I need to do it anyway, I've been cleaning out our closets. The kids have grown so some of their items are being handed down or handed over to Goodwill or Love Inc. I'm trying to follow the rule if you haven't worn it in x months, get rid of it. I finally had to admit that even if some styles come back in fashion...I didn't really like them that much the first time! ;)

This verse since it mentions "clothe" yourselves caught my eye. Then I read what I can clothe myself with. Wow! Compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. How much different my day would be if I pull my clothes from THAT closet.

Right before that verse was listed all the things I could be rid of.

You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived. 8But now you must rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. 9Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices 10and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator. Colossians 3:7-10 (NIV)

Those are not even worth recycling or handing down. Time for a NEW SELF and a better closet. Look out best dressed list! We've got a new wardrobe.